A Touch When a Word Would Do

[picapp align=”left” wrap=”true” link=”term=touch&iid=4915429″ src=”3/e/f/e/Amazing_Me_0ce5.jpg?adImageId=10615743&imageId=4915429″ width=”234″ height=”185″ /]Has someone ever comforted you by standing next to you putting their arm around your shoulder while saying nothing?  Ever been nearly knocked down by a friend who playfully bumped into you?  Ever had someone place a cool washcloth and your fevered forehead? Ever had someone wipe a teardrop off your cheek? Ever received an unexpected, but not unwanted, hug?

In the past century academia produced nearly innumerable studies venerating the value of human touch.  Even though the summary of this information is readily available our culture is growing more and more touch adverse.  From my point of view, it seems that touch is regulated to sexual suggestiveness or to sexual predators. What happened to unsullied, supportive touch?  Can the Christian rightly follow this tide out to the sea of separation?

I think not.

The Word become flesh, when confronted by a culturally and physically “untouchable” did not rely on his authority to speak disease away.

Moved with compassion, Jesus stretched out HIs hand and touched him, and said to him, “I am willing; be cleansed.” (Mark 1.41, NASB)

My friends at Main Street will be celebrating being Cherished in this manner this upcoming weekend.

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Smashing Doors

[picapp align=”left” wrap=”true” link=”term=smashing+doors&iid=6779440″ src=”2/0/c/b/Smiling_Through_be16.jpg?adImageId=10413064&imageId=6779440″ width=”380″ height=”570″ /]Last night I was working really late.  I was alone and the lights in the office were off.  I had to leave my desk to retrieve something and I ran shoulder-square into a door that was open but left slightly ajar.  I think I bent my body frame. I had not been hit that hard since high school football. 

This morning’s rising reminded me of last night’s unexpected collision.  I pondered why my left side hurt worse when the right side bore the direct impact.  I suppose the truth of “when one member suffers all suffer” is real, at least as it is applied to my own body.

This week I listened as a friend poured out the details of a hopelessly broken relationship.  I could hear desperation and hurt in every syllable of every word.  My friend is not alone, I could fill up paragraph after paragraph chronicling the artesian hurts shared with me just this past week.  To my fellow Elders, I have described the past year as a tsunami of pain.

For my part, I know for a fact the hurts are not new and that the recession is not the cause.  Access to easy money served as an analgesic; when the pills were taken away the veiled pain became clear.

So what are we to do? 

I suggest we make the long walk back to connectedness.  We must stop hiding behind the closed doors of our homes, the pretend niceties of our daily communication and begin to develop honest, sacrificial, and significant relationships.  Only then will we be able to agree with Paul,

…And if one member suffers, all the members suffer with it; if one member is honored, all the members rejoice with it.  Now you are Christ’s body, and individually members of it. 1 Corinthians 12.26-27, NASB

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Negotiating the Ice (of Discontent)

[picapp align=”left” wrap=”true” link=”term=ice&iid=7945539″ src=”1/c/3/3/Snow_and_ice_76f1.JPG?adImageId=10366444&imageId=7945539″ width=”234″ height=”147″ /]Once upon a time there was this thing called “winter.”  I read about it in the Little House on the Prairie books.  One scene in particular remains in my memory: visiting the barn during a blizzard.  As I recall a rope stretched from house to barn so that Pa could get there and back without getting lost and dying just a few yards from the relative safety of the cabin.  Perhaps my imagination was too vivid, but I can still feel a twinge of Laura’s angst as she waited for her beloved father to return.

We now sit in our electronically climate controlled homes, watching the weather’s effect from the safety of strategically stationed web-based cameras, complaining vociferously about the grand inconvenience that our daycare is closed and that we have to figure out who will take care of the children.  So extreme is our sense of entitlement that we expect the gods of winter to only visit between the hours of 11p and 4a, leaving only what the road crews can easily clean up on our behalf before the morning rush.

What is the matter?  I seriously doubt one person stumbling upon my corner of a virtual existence is in fear for their life today due to what used to be referred to as “normal winter weather.”  Most are trying to figure out how to survive past the depletion of the Pop Tarts.

How about a hot cup of contentment to chase away the chill of the air?  As a fellow proficient complainer I know I must drink of it often.  

I found this devotional written in the 1800’s.  I updated the language a little bit, but it is otherwise unchanged.

“I have learned, in whatever state I am, therewith to be content.” — Philippians 4:11, KJV

These words show us that contentment is not a natural propensity of man. “Weeds grow everywhere.” Covetousness, discontent, and murmuring are as natural to man as thorns are to the soil. We need not sow thistles and brambles; they come up naturally enough, because they are indigenous to earth: and so, we need not teach men to complain; they complain fast enough without any education. But the precious things of the earth must be cultivated. If we would have wheat, we must plow and sow; if we want flowers, there must be the garden, and all the gardener’s care. Now, contentment is one of the flowers of heaven, and if we would have it, it must be cultivated; it will not grow in us by nature; it is the new nature alone that can produce it, and even then we must be specially careful and watchful that we maintain and cultivate the grace which God has sown in us.

Paul says, “I have learned … to be content;” as much as to say, he did not know how at one time. It cost him some pains to attain to the mystery of that great truth. No doubt he sometimes thought he had learned, and then broke down. And when at last he had attained it, and could say, “I have learned in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content,” he was an old, grey-headed man, upon the borders of the grave—a poor prisoner shut up in Nero’s dungeon at Rome. We might well be willing to endure Paul’s infirmities, and share the cold dungeon with him, if we too might by any means attain unto his good degree. Do not indulge the notion that you can be contented with learning, or learn without discipline. It is not a power that may be exercised naturally, but a science to be acquired gradually. We know this from experience. Brother, hush that murmur, natural though it be, and continue a diligent pupil in the College of Content. 

Spurgeon, C. H. (2006). Morning and evening : Daily readings (Complete and unabridged; New modern edition.) (February 16 AM). Peabody, MA: Hendrickson Publishers.

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In Defense of Thomas

[picapp align=”left” wrap=”true” link=”term=doubt&iid=7313315″ src=”c/5/a/f/The_Incredulity_of_edfe.jpg?adImageId=10329777&imageId=7313315″ width=”234″ height=”243″ /]More often than I care to admit, the question “What am I doing?” pops into my mind.  Sometimes this thought is connected to a present frustration.  Perhaps someone I have diligently prayed for falls away, or some sickness overtakes one I have personally touched, or love is absent where it should abound.  Sometimes I am just ordering my daily business and I wonder if everything I do and believe is nonsense.  Not to put too fine a point on it, I still have doubts.

Christianity has historically picked on Thomas as the “great doubter.”  I submit that John (the Baptist) committed far worse a “crime of disbelief.”  When John knew his life was soon to be cut short, he sent a message to his cousin, “Are you for real?”

Instead of answering,

Did you not leap in your mother’s womb when I came near? (Luke 1.41)

Were you not declared a prophet from your infancy? Wasn’t the proclamation of your lips to be the declaration “salvation is come”? (Luke 1.67ff) 

Didn’t you preach the Word given to you, “Repent, the kingdom of heaven is at hand”? (Matthew 3.1ff)

Didn’t you take on the religious elite, calling them to the same repentance as the tax collector? (Luke 3.7ff)

Didn’t you publicly declare that one would come after you who would be mightier, whose baptism would be the Holy Spirit and fire and whose judgment would be true and final? (Luke 3.16ff)

Didn’t you personally see the Spirit descend and didn’t you hear the voice of God when you baptized me saying, “This is my beloved son in whom I am well-pleased”? (Mark 1.9ff)

Wasn’t it you who said of me, “Behold the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world”! (John 1.29ff)

Jesus loved the doubter. 

My friends at Main Street will find out just how much this upcoming weekend.

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Hairy Arms (Pt. 1)

Yesterday I shared just a few thoughts about the current version of “men” purveyed by popular “culture.”  It is my firm belief that only man’s Creator has the right to define what makes “a man.”  Yesterday I encouraged men to learn how to cook, if they do not already know.  Do you know the Bible’s most famous male chef?[picapp align=”right” wrap=”true” link=”term=chef&iid=5097805″ src=”3/4/a/b/Man_in_apron_a8fe.jpg?adImageId=10120446&imageId=5097805″ width=”234″ height=”352″ /]

“And when the time came to give birth, Rebekah discovered that she did indeed have twins! The first one was very red at birth and covered with thick hair like a fur coat. So they named him Esau. Then the other twin was born with his hand grasping Esau’s heel. So they named him Jacob. Isaac was sixty years old when the twins were born. As the boys grew up, Esau became a skillful hunter. He was an outdoorsman, but Jacob had a quiet temperament, preferring to stay at home. Isaac loved Esau because he enjoyed eating the wild game Esau brought home, but Rebekah loved Jacob. One day when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau arrived home from the wilderness exhausted and hungry. Esau said to Jacob, “I’m starved! Give me some of that red stew!” (This is how Esau got his other name, Edom, which means “red.”) “All right,” Jacob replied, “but trade me your rights as the firstborn son.” “Look, I’m dying of starvation!” said Esau. “What good is my birthright to me now?” But Jacob said, “First you must swear that your birthright is mine.” So Esau swore an oath, thereby selling all his rights as the firstborn to his brother, Jacob. Then Jacob gave Esau some bread and lentil stew. Esau ate the meal, then got up and left. He showed contempt for his rights as the firstborn.” (Genesis 25:24-34, NLT)

For those unfamiliar with the rest of the story, Jacob turned out to be quite a messed up fellow.  In spite of his myriad of failings, God still chose him to be a man through which he would work out his redemption plan.  God passed over Esau, the “man’s man.” Esau’s descendents actually became enemies to the descendents of his brother. 

God sustained Jacob, he wrestled with Jacob, he redeemed Jacob from his own foolish and destructive behavior.  Jacob’s personality, his lack of “outdoorsmen” ability, even the fact he was described as a “momma’s boy” did not dissuade God.  God called Jacob to be a man who obeyed and followed him.  God loved a chosen man who could really cook. It would be worth the effort for men to open God’s word (Genesis 25-50) and to learn from what Jacob did well (how he learned to trust and obey God) and to avoid the many things in which Jacob failed (like not being a strategic and involved dad).  It will take a little bit of work, but isn’t learning what it means to be a man worth it?

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Men are Ineffectual, Spineless, Idiots

[picapp align=”left” wrap=”true” link=”term=stupid+bowl&iid=1119117″ src=”a/2/6/5/NY_Howard_TV_9310.jpg?adImageId=10067758&imageId=1119117″ width=”234″ height=”333″ /]My takeaway from the Super Bowl this Sunday had nothing to do with football.  I wish I would have timed the game, because I think I watched more commercials than football.  I doubt many would claim this year’s crop of very expensive ads to be the best Madison Avenue has produced. I found them particularly offensive.

To be honest, I was already raw from listening to a “Talk of the Nation” radio show on the topic of the economic reversal of the “benefit” of marriage.  According to the latest statistics, women are not only more highly educated than men, but also are beginning to earn higher wages as well.  For my part, I am glad women are being paid in accordance to their experience and education.  I am old enough to remember that this was not always the case. 

However, as I listened to the discussion between the female columnist and the male clinical psychologist regarding the abilities of “stay-at-home dads,” I became infuriated.  I personally know several stay-at-home dads.  They are smart, some are very well educated and all work very hard at home.  They are not beer belly, t-shirt wearing barbarians nor are they effeminate metrosexuals.  (I also know several who fall into those two categories, but in my mind the former is not worthy of the being called a leech, the latter not worthy to be named a man.)  According to the two “experts” on the radio, men need to be patronized because they may not cook as well as their spouse, and “men may send their daughters to school with three pony tails and unmatched clothes” but “that’s ok, they just do housework a little different and working women should allow their stay-at-home men freedom to do it their way.” Gag me with a spoon! [Smile stop]

First of all, men are not girls (duh!) and it is horribly damaging when women try to make them so (double duh!).  I have two beautiful daughters.  I learned to help them with their hair, but to this day I have no idea how to braid or to place more than one crooked pony tail.  I don’t need to.  I married a girl who took the time to teach my girls how to do “girl stuff.”  Secondly, men can cook and since many moms were working in the Seventies and Eighties, many men can cook far better than their spouses because they had to learn how to feed themselves as children.  Men who don’t know, can and should, learn.  Start with the barbeque brothers! [Smile stop] 

I have a lot more to say, but am beginning to border on a rant, so I will stop here and let these five million dollars worth of commercials say the rest.  I am going to go puke.

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