The Dangers in Reunion

This summer I have scheduled a trip back to Oregon.  Amongst visiting family and enjoying the stunning landscapes, I will be reconnecting with people I have not really seen in twenty to twenty-five years.  These people knew me before I grew up; as I was attempting to grow up.  It is frightening.  My only solace is in the self-deception that the memory of my classmates is not as vivid as mine.

The source of my chagrin is the reality that I did not grow up completely yielded to the will and power of the Savior I confessed.  I displayed attitudes, committed acts, and spoke words I regret.

Jesus did not have this fear.  He grew up yielded to the Father and without the burden of regrets.  We would think that those who knew him, who watched him make the journey from boy to man would have been so impressed that they would only speak of him in hushed and reverent tones.

When Jesus took his rightful place as authoritative Teacher, kind words of “church” people turned quickly to murderous action.  Jesus left his hometown and shared the grace to come with those who did not know him well.

The truth of Jesus’ love for both those who knew him and violently rejected him and those who just met him and immediately followed him will be the topic for consideration this week at Main Street.

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Cherished: A Love Confessed

When someone says,”I love you” it is decision time, isn’t it?  Do you remember the first time you uttered those words to someone who wasn’t your mother?  Did you mean it? Did you understand what you meant? 

In the days when I was young and Neanderthal still walked the face of the planet, children exchanged Valentine cards with only children they liked.  At least that is how the “popular” kids played the game.  The rest of the group gave Valentines to everyone hoping against hope that someone “important” would give them a Valentine in return.  Every so often someone was surprised by a welcomed secret admirer.  What bliss to be paid attention by a perceived superior.  Bragging rites belonged to the one who received something more than “From: Jane” etched in pencil.  Hearts would soar and dreams suddenly bore the promise of reality with those three little words.

I remember the first time I told a girl I loved her.  I was at a party with my girlfriend, my best friend and his girlfriend.  He and I were talking sports and the girls bounced up, looked us straight in the eyes and said the magical phrase.  I was stunned, but managed to utter the appropriate reply without too disappointing a pause.  My much wiser friend kept his mouth shut.  The girls giggled, whispered into each other’s ears and ran off to join a larger group.

“What were you thinking?” my friend growled.  “You don’t tell a girl you love her unless you mean it.”

I did mean it, sort of. I at least meant it now that my buddy thought I was an idiot.  I wasn’t about to admit that I had not thought my response through or was in any way giddy that a girl said she loved me.  I couldn’t admit that level of uncool.   The internal conflict raged between the recognition that I really did not know what I was getting myself into, and the primordial desire to be loved by a girl.

Decades are now passed since that day and I am still learning to love.  For many love is some sort of chemical reaction, a biological response.  For others love is a philosophical commitment, a choice of will.  Others don’t believe such a thing even exists.  For me love is the basis of all I know.  Love is my only hope and being loved is my only salvation.

Who this love is and how this love is, will be the occupation of my friends at Main Street this month.

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Wrapped

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Ever try the “snuggie” of praise? 

I have long struggled with what the medical profession refers to as “depression.”  My particular condition is a mixture of personality predisposition and chemical imbalances in my blood (and probably brain).  I range from feeling “blue” to dealing with irrational and unwanted thoughts/plans of suicide.  I am fortunate in that I have yet to need medication to survive. 

It is my deep belief that the remedy taught to me in song by my mother decades ago is crucial to overcoming days when I just want to crawl in a hole and stay there.  It has been my experience that when those days come when I cannot face what it means to be alive, my willful response to vocally honor God for who he is, what he is doing, and for his grace to me, throws off the “spirit of faintness.” The fulfillment of this promise exceeds beating the press of the day.  The donning of the “garment of praise” guarantees the wearer oak-like strength to the glory of the God who plants such trees.

…To grant those who mourn in Zion–to give them a beautiful headdress instead of ashes…the garment of praise instead of a faint spirit; that they may be called oaks of righteousness, the planting of the LORD, that he may be glorified.  (Isaiah 61.3, ESV)

Try it, this wrap up will be far more satisfying than any you have tried before. This praise dynamic is time-tested and proved to work across ages and cultures.

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Smoking Alone Doesn’t Hurt Anybody

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Yes, most would agree, “relationships are important.”  What we agree about and what we do in this present world are most often two markedly different things.  We know we are pre-wired for relationships, yet we exert very little effort to make and maintain healthy connections.  We yearn in our hearts for someone to really know us while simultaneously erecting protective barriers against just such knowledge.

We have substituted, “How are you?” “Fine, thank you. And you?”  for substantive conversation. We have exchanged the group party for the challenge of a few intimates.  We have proxied the difficulty of face to face entanglement to the offerings of television drama.  

Jesus’ petition for his disciples, “I pray that they will all be one, just as you and I are one–as you are in me, Father, and I am in you.  And may they be in us so that the world will believe you sent me” (John 17.21, NLT) seems to us to be just as remote a reality as heaven. 

Do you have a group of people who would brave the slice of the North wind for no other reason than to suffer with you?

We need to regain the power of relationship-based living.  First a reconnection with God through his son, Jesus.  Then a real reconnection with others in our lives, family first.  Since each one of us operate from some level of relational brokenness, it will be difficult.  There will need to be a lot of forgiveness extended and received.  I believe the only way for us to be whole is to do so in community, no matter what the Marlboro man says.

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Descending Into Greatness

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The call to take the “lower chair” in order to honor someone else is not only counterintuitive, but, dare I say, contra-human.  Our culture professes to want everyone to win, to make all things egalitarian but still practices the “survival of the fittest” mantra we adopted in the nineteenth century.  The only time we value equality is when the ease of mediocrity outweighs the need for excellence.

The man referred to as “John the Baptist” was an extraordinary individual.  John’s way of life testified to complete clarity regarding his purpose and passion as a human being and as a creation of the God he served.  John did not allow the opinions of others to dissuade him from performing his life’s work and nor did John countenance the temptation to be jealous of his cousin’s growing popularity.

Because John’s earthly story ends with beheading, we have oft forgotten the power of his life.  It is life worth talking about and seeking emulate.

My friends at Main Street will be doing so this week.

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Book Review: Crowd Culture

Although readers of this blog may never be able to tell, I am an avid reader. I want to let folk know about the really great work out there (in the midst of the piles of junk) but just haven’t made time to write something I consider to be worthy.  Well, I will stop trying to do something worthwhile and instead put my pennies in the pot.

The only book I read in 2009 that caused me to call the publisher and order extra copies so I may give copies away is Crowd Culture: An Examination of the American Way of Life by Bernard Iddings Bell.

Regarding the church Bell wrote,

“The world, hurtling on toward political, economic, psychic catastrophe, is not going to be saved, if it is saved at all, by the Church if the Church remains an uncommitted host of politely respectable people, willing to be led by professional ecclesiastics whose methods of promotion and administration are just about as worldly as those of the sick society they say they wish to reform but which, as a matter of fact, deforms them almost as easily as it deforms everybody else.  If the Church is to help in restoring the world to moral sanity, there must first be revolt and recovery of moral sanity within the Church.” (pg. 76)

Regarding education Bell wrote,

“The idea is to treat all the pupils as though they were equally intelligent.  The standard of achievement is set to fit the average, which is fair-to-middling low.  The result is a mediocrity which frets and frustrates the more able while it flatters the incompetent.  This mediocrity is making Americans increasingly a set of dull dogs, standardized in opinions, fearful of argument, clichéd in conversation.” (pg. 50)

Regarding American culture Bell wrote,

“Corruption corrodes our political and industrial doings.  In our private lives a pervading relativism, an absence of conviction about what is the good life, a willingness to seek the easy way rather than the way of integrity, blunts the proddings of conscience, takes the zest out of living, creates a general boredom.  We are not a happy people; our alleged gaiety is not spontaneous.  Our boredom results not only in a reluctant morality but in shockingly bad manners, which most of us do not even know are bad manners.  We become increasingly truculent [meaning “savage”…I had to look it up too:)].  Our way of life, while opulent and brash and superficially friendly, is less and less conducive to peace of mind and security of soul.” (pg. 4)

While Bell’s well expressed assessments may seem a little harsh we cannot escape the truth of their correctness.

Here is the real “kicker”:  Bernard Iddings Bell was a Episcopalian priest, collegiate professor and a man of letters.  This book was originally published when more Americans than ever were attending church and while the United States was experiencing a so-called cultural renaissance, a time period looked at by many as the “golden age”: the 1950’s.

I would be so bold to add Bell’s many titles the designation “prophet.”  Although he addressed contemporary issues, his work stands firmly and fully true today and many would do well to read his essays carefully and then join me in repentance.

*Reader Alert!*  Keep the dictionary handy and take the time to read the outstanding introduction by Cicero Bruce.

Bell, Bernard Iddings. Crowd Culture: An Examination of the American Way of Life. Wilmington, DE: ISI Books (c) 1952, 2001. ISBN 1882926609/9781882926602

 

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